Hi, I’m Aleah Ava & I Believe That Your Heart Is Your Compass & Infinitely Wise!

Aleah’s Personal Story

It All Started With Me Being A Lonely Tiny Little Baby

For as long as I could remember, I felt like I lived in a bubble, like I was disappearing into a void, feeling deeply alone and isolated. It was not until I did some serious soul searching (aka very painful therapy) to understand and feel what happened to me that had left such considerable marks on my heart.

It all started with me being one month old, only just born and yet I find myself in my crib feeling utterly alone, scared and in need. In need of a warm skin, loving eyes, safe arms and an inviting smile. In need of my mothers voice saying “Welcome to this world my angel. I have been waiting for you! I am over the moon happy that you are here. I am so glad that I get to take care of you. I will listen to your needs and provide you a space of safety and love. I love you so much.”

That is unfortunately not exactly how it went. When I was born, my parents were in the middle of managing a little hotel spending all day and night serving their guests. There was not much room for my needs and my childhood became a world of fears, loneliness and isolation. Already at the age of 2 I woke up in the middle of the night paralyzed, unable to move, so very scared and in terror.

Depression, Love Addiction & Dysfunctional Relationships

Due to her own abusive childhood, my mother was a hurt young woman without the right tools to process her difficult emotional state. Her fears, anger, frustrations and sadness made her lash out on me more than I had been able to cope with.It left me feeling empty and unworthy carrying this an incredible longing in my heart to feel safe, protected and loved by her.

As a result of not having had my emotional needs met, I desperately started to chase love and attention only to find the same childhood reality in every man I’d met. It was reality confirming the deeply instilled belief that love does not exist for me and that I am not worthy of it. I became a typical love addict trying to finally fill the void my unmet needs had left in me, wasting years in broken and dysfunctional relationships.

Love and Relationships for me became a dangerous territory. I tended to lose myself in relationships very quickly, unaware of and ignoring my own needs to ensure that I am loved. All I attracted was emotionally and sexually unavailable men. I tried everything to fill the void inside of myself, that emptiness and did everything I could to avoid feeling unworthy.

Turning My Pain

Into Power

Until I was 34, I did not understand how I kept attracting all of the misery, until my powerful awakening. Until my heart broke for the millionth of time in the deep feeling therapy I had undergone with ruthless sincerity. I had to learn how to access those painful experiences over and over, safely feel, express and expose them, grief my unmet needs and completely change the way I relate with men and the world.

That is where the concept of the devastating consequences of the early absence of love was born for me. #themotherwound and #anxiousattachmentstyle are not some fancy hashtags, they’re the result of significant emotional wounding that bring forth a myriad of emotional and mental health problems such as depression, low self/worth, anxiety as well as various forms of addictions.

I was often angry with God during the first two years of therapy. I did not understand how he could send me through so much pain for such a long time. But then when I finally got better, I started to see it so clearly. I had to go this deep so I can take people this deep because I have been there, in the midst of the mess. It was a no brainer to make this my calling and show other people the way when it comes to deep healing and the liberation of the shackles of childhood trauma.

In return for my courage and my willingness to dive into the places where I hurt, I have been gifted with a supreme awareness, an even more powerful intuition and the gift of clairsentience. I can feel someone’s feelings in my own body when I tune in and that allows me to bring a certain efficiency to the table when working with my clients and safely guide and support them on their own healing journey. I can honestly say that I love my profession and what I get to contribute to this world.

Finding Healthy, Safe & Epic Love

If you asked me what I consider one of the biggest and most meaningful achievements in my life, I would tell you that it was finding epic love. A love that feels exactly the way I had always wanted it to feel. Recovering from Love Addiction is a journey and it entails many pitfalls and layers that need to be peeled off to finally arrive at the other end of the tunnel.

There was a time when I considered myself pretty far ahead in my recovery. I no longer lost time in dysfunctional relationships, I was fearless when it came to not compromising falsely and I had my vision well laid out. And yet, despite my investment of time, money and energy, I was still unable to attract him.

At one point I sat in my living room writing a letter to him saying: “my love, I have tried. I have looked for you in all corners of this world. I have spent years making myself ready for you and I truly feel that I am. However, I have not succeeded in finding you. Please come find me. I will be waiting for you!” I lit a candle and went to sleep with a peaceful feeling of total surrender and let go.

Two months later he showed up. “You have a match!” said a notification on my phone (yes, we met on a dating app!). I opened the profile and there he was. Ismaele. The most loving, sincere, passionate, honest, kind and naturally tantric man I have ever met. He is everything I had ever dreamed of. He is me in a male body. We speak the same language and are both highly sensitive, emotional and caring with an equally big heart of gold.

This love feels different. I don’t have to calculate my next moves. It feels easy to speak the truth and be vulnerable. He loves the parts of me that others have rejected in the past and he makes me feel loved like no one has ever before. It is exciting to watch him be who he is and I feel proud and grateful that he chooses me as his woman by his side. Finding healthy love made it all come together and I am thrilled to experience the unfolding of our union.

Creation Of

The Royal Path

I always had the vision for Dan and myself to create something amazing together and share our profound gifts with the world. However, that vision was only to come true at a later moment in time, outside our relationship container. After our break-up it was vital for the both of us to continue our healing journey separately for a while before we share our gifts with the world.

When our paths crossed again and we decided to become business partners, we first had to deal with our remaining relationship dynamics to commit to each other and our vision fully. We still experience challenges from time to time, but we rely on the tools we have received over the years and continue to transform upcoming issues real time.

We both love people and we are deeply compassionate for the path they have walked. We respect them and their feelings, and we give them space to express themselves. We keep holding ourselves accountable to never fall into the role of the “We know it all” kind of leaders. Because in the hands of other qualified therapist, we are just two human beings with their own messed up stories to transform. Given our vast experiences, however, we surely are masters at helping you transform yours.

Healing is messy, but it can be done. I am living proof of it. The question is not if you are ready. The question is are you ready now? If your answer is yes, send me a message and we take it from there!

Caroline, United Kingdom:

I devoured these podcasts which felt like they were written for me and my healing. They led me on a journey of finally facing and tackling my love addiction. Aleah is heaven sent. She is blessed with profound insight and a way of delivering it that speaks to mind, body and soul. If you think you may be addicted to love, I cannot recommend the podcasts highly enough.

Indiamai, United Kingdom:

I have listened to all of these podcasts and what i found was with the delivery of each one , my subconsious was unravelling deeper and deeper, where i could no longer hide from the real truth of what i have been doing all of my life. Also i would not want to hide from it as Aleah’s words penetrated my soul, empowering me to see so clearly why i have attracted the situations and relationships that i have so far. Awareness is the first and major step to transforming anything and the soft loving delivery meant i was able to relax and listen to every word and digest easily. Everyone will gain something from this even if it is just to fine tune a thriving relationship, or, if you have had a lifetime of painful relationships because we are all on this journey of creating the best version of ourselves that we possibly can, either consciously or by default through unexpected events.

Anca, Romania:

LOVE is our daily struggle! LOVE is our daily need! Your words are so true and so helpful!! Thank you Aleah!!

IvoryGold, Switzerland:

It is perfectly clear that Aleah Ava knows exactly what she is talking about. Her explanation and guidance will help people not only to understand their relationship behaviour but will encourage them to make the change. And besides that, I simply adore her voice.

LellyFitz, United States:

I have been off and on in therapy for years! Aleah describes in just a few episodes the true heart of my many ‘people pleasing’ struggles! She is so relatable and vulnerable yet firm and clear. If you want to form healthier habits in your personal and love life this is an incredible resource! Highly recommend!

Yeehaw Dudes, United States:

This podcast is amazing. The approach is so gentle, but also rigorously honest. The awareness I’ve gained from listening to this podcast is enormous and it’s already helped my so much.

loveaddictnumber 143:

The amount of self awareness this podcast is bringing into my life is life changing. it feels relieving to know i’m not the only one who feels these things. thank you so much for the time and effort you all put into putting this content out there!!

Official Bio

Aleah Ava is a Spiritual Psychologist and Tantra Therapist. She supports both couples and individuals in navigating through the much needed deeper inner healing work to achieve supreme clarity, emotional liberation from the past and full personal sovereignty and empowerment.

Through her own method – Emotional Recycling – she enables her clients to safely and consciously re-access repressed unintegrated feelings. Integration and healing happens through the safe and vulnerable exposure of those feelings, the necessary grief work and the overwriting with the heart-based frequency of love and pleasure.

After more than a decade of partaking in various healing and growth modalities and trainings (including more than 150 open-end deep feeling/inner child sessions) she is now able to take people to the depth of their being.

Her unique gifts such as her clair-sentience as well as her fine-tuned intuition and clarity combined with the holding of a non-judgmental, safe and loving space allows her clients to naturally and efficiently dive in, work through their repressed feelings and resurface with insights that literally transform their life on every level.

Being a recovering Love Addict herself motivated her to create the Addicted to Love Podcast where she sheds light and immeasurable insight into one of the most controversial topics Love Addiction-and dependency. She supports her listeners in breaking denial, creating a high level of awareness and she shares with them the powerful and successful tools that helped her break free from dysfunctional, unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships.

She is the co-founder of The Royal Path and together with her Business Partner, Dan Hart, and their team, they offer signature deep healing retreats, individual, group and couples coaching as well as online programs. Their first book will be released by the end of 2020.


University of Applied Sciences
Zurich, Switzerland
6 months at the Osho Ashram in Pune, India. The time included the participation, training and staffing of inner child work, childhood and sexual de-conditioning, Tantra seminars with Homa & Mukto, Mystic Rose Process, The Path of Love Retreat as well as the ‘Women on the Path of Love’ retreat.
Participation and Training in various aspects of Tantra for 5 weeks at Osheanic in Brazil with Homa & Mukto. Level I – Understanding and healing old wounds, exploring sexuality, sensitivity and personal power as well as the ability to love unconditionally. Level II – Exploring male and female energies, sexual polarity, deep relaxation and intimacy, learning about sex as a door to meditation, awareness and presence. Level 3 – Energy reading training that builds confidence in our intuition (including synchronicity, body awareness & touch) and learning to communicate from the heart space.
Unleash the power within, Date with Destiny and Health & Wealth Mastery
Participation in seminars focused on sexual deconditioning, Advanced Sex, Sexual Completion, Transmission Training, Ego-Workshop, Sacred Rituals and Dark Retreat.
Various weeklong childhood deconditioning/inner child/original paintwork retreats alongside Puja Lepp, licensed counsellor and psychologist.
More than 120 open end sessions of the Original Primal Therapy diving deeply into her own childhood trauma. For the first 6 months she lived in Los Angeles to do the therapy on-site and continued for another 2.5 years online with the same therapist, David Lassoff who is currently the Master Therapist at the center. Aleah`s work is highly inspired by her awakening experience during this deep feeling therapy.
Certified Tantra Therapist education including trauma healing, wheel of consent, coaching modalities, NLP, meditation, body work, breath-work, de-armouring, sacred dance, ceremonial theatre, transfiguration, tantra massage, yoni, anus & lingam massage and tantric temple ceremonies.

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