Heal or overcome your Love Addiction Now!


You Have Been Doing This Alone For Way Too Long

The number one thing that helped me overcome my love addiction was to leverage the triggers by feeling the feelings behind it instead of acting them out. However, there was one all-deciding difference;

I exposed my feelings and my needy, obsessive, compulsive, neurotic side to someone else when working through it. At first, it was the most challenging thing to do, but after a while, I understood the incredible power of exposure.

Being seen and validated in our pain and not being judged for any of it, is the biggest gift one can receive. It means pure LOVE and gives us a deep feeling of being seen, validated and worthy.

Most of us have lost the ability to share and express how we feel a long time ago. When we were little, there was no one we could turn to with all that we felt or anyone that would hold a loving, non-intrusive space for us. As children, we had no one and nowhere to go with our feelings. It left us feeling deeply alone and isolated and we still carry these feelings even today in our adult life.

This is about innocence, integrity and a deep longing of wanting to serve. It’s about helping each other heal without wanting to fix each other, without giving in to our ego wanting to coach, guide or teach someone else, so we feel more significant.

This is how we overcome Love Addiction. Instead of acting out the obsession, the neediness, the compulsions in unconscious ways (by stalking him, checking out where he is, calling too many times, always being the first one to reach out, waiting for his call, etc.), we leverage the triggers instead. This goes for both women who are single as well as for women who are in a relationship. Feeling instead of acting out will significantly benefit the relationship you are in.

Do You Ever…

  • jump into the next relationship because it is hard for you to be on your own?
  • lower your standards because you fear that you won’t be loved otherwise?
  • ignore the red flags?
  • have troubles letting go of relationships even though you wanted to?
  • attract the wrong partners?
  • NOT express your true feelings?
  • come across as needy and repel your partner with your behavior?

Are you ready to break free from unhealthy love and instead feel uplifted, inspired, alive and deeply loved, but you don’t know how to get there?
The Healing Pool will get you there and you will have me in your corner!

Aleah Ava

I know that all you want is to be loved, not just today, but also tomorrow. There is only one problem: there is someone you have to fall in love with first! And that someone is YOU.
You’ve got to do the work first.

Aleah Ava

I have been there over and over again so I created something that will get you out of that! I founded The Healing Pool because I wanted to create a short-cut for those who face the same battles!

The Healing Pool In A Nutshell

Your Personal Workbook

A 46-page workbook designed specifically to tackle step 1 in recovery, called “creating awareness”. It will be the first thing you will work through to support you stepping out of obsessive love into self-empowerment.

A Supportive Community

In this work, our community will be crucial. Under my clear guidance, you will help each other heal the wounds that make you act in destructive ways. This is where you meet people who understand what you are going through.

Group Coaching Calls

Two times per month you’ll have the opportunity to bring your questions to our live Group Coaching Call via Zoom. Each call will last 2 hours. You’ll learn from others and others will learn from you.

Live Online Courses

A 2-hour online training on the trigger & feeling work called Emotional Recycling. This training will build the basis for everything we will be doing in the Group Coaching Calls.

A Monthly Mantra

Each month you will receive a precious nugget to ponder on, helping you to become more clear about your own truth. It will support you on your path to recovery.

A Virtual Personal Letter

In your monthly personal letter, I will address the current state of your recovery. I will provide you with helpful feedback, important things to consider and I’ll add extra tips around your healing journey.

Namaya Devi, Zoetermeer, Netherlands

I feel so much more depth in myself as a lot of hidden and unseen old stories, feelings and imprints were released from my body. Aleah knew perfectly how to guide me there and the space to do that felt very safe. I found myself grieving on a much deeper level and I realised that I am now better able to fully feel and I love it! It is such a gift and a blessing Aleah was able to take me there.

Indiamai, United Kingdom:

I have listened to all of these podcasts and what i found was with the delivery of each one , my subconsious was unravelling deeper and deeper, where i could no longer hide from the real truth of what i have been doing all of my life. Also i would not want to hide from it as Aleah’s words penetrated my soul, empowering me to see so clearly why i have attracted the situations and relationships that i have so far. Awareness is the first and major step to transforming anything and the soft loving delivery meant i was able to relax and listen to every word and digest easily. Everyone will gain something from this even if it is just to fine tune a thriving relationship, or, if you have had a lifetime of painful relationships because we are all on this journey of creating the best version of ourselves that we possibly can, either consciously or by default through unexpected events.

Anca, Romania:

LOVE is our daily struggle! LOVE is our daily need! Your words are so true and so helpful!! Thank you Aleah!!

IvoryGold, Switzerland:

It is perfectly clear that Aleah Ava knows exactly what she is talking about. Her explanation and guidance will help people not only to understand their relationship behaviour but will encourage them to make the change. And besides that, I simply adore her voice.

LellyFitz, United States:

I have been off and on in therapy for years! Aleah describes in just a few episodes the true heart of my many ‘people pleasing’ struggles! She is so relatable and vulnerable yet firm and clear. If you want to form healthier habits in your personal and love life this is an incredible resource! Highly recommend!

Yeehaw Dudes, United States:

This podcast is amazing. The approach is so gentle, but also rigorously honest. The awareness I’ve gained from listening to this podcast is enormous and it’s already helped my so much.

loveaddictnumber 143:

The amount of self awareness this podcast is bringing into my life is life changing. it feels relieving to know i’m not the only one who feels these things. thank you so much for the time and effort you all put into putting this content out there!!

Are You Ready To Not Just Survive Your Break-up, But Actually Thrive?

How about you finally found a place where you can come to just the way you are? With your feelings, your thoughts, your challenges? Where there won’t be anyone, trying to fix you or tell you what you should do unless you ask for it? I’ve been looking for a space like that for a long time, and instead of hoping that there is such a place, I just created it.

When you have someone next to you, playing in your team, cheering for you and guiding you on your journey back into the deepest wisdom and the language of your heart, you can turn around anything.

The Healing Pool will support you in remembering who you are and what love truly looks like. It will give you structure and guidance and you won’t ever have to do it alone anymore. The moment you join, you’ll be part of a community that walks the same path as you do.

The Healing Pool Is For You, If You Want To…


Overcome Your Unhealthy Dependency On Love


Stop Pretending And Get Real


Ultimately Move On From Unfulfilling Relationships To Create A Life You Truly Love And Desire


Re-Learn How To Connect With Your Feelings


Live A Life In A State Of Empowerment


Become Less Dependant On Outside Attention And Approval


There Has Never Been A Better Moment

The Healing Pool is reserved for only 8 committed people and we start at the 1st of August 2019. When it comes to healing, commitment is EVERYTHING. I will be all in and I will give you my heart and soul and I expect the same from you in return.


When signing up, you commit to:

  • A minimum of 4 months participation in the Healing Pool (after that you are free to end our agreement)
  • Making the Group Coaching Calls one of your top priorities in life, so you’ll do whatever it takes to participate in them
  • Paying EUR 350 per month to receive all of the mentioned above (payment in USD or CHF available)

The Healing Pool really is for those who take their recovery serious but maybe cannot afford personal coaching with me. It’s the very next best thing to working with me one-on-one.

AND, it’s also for those who want to become part of an amazing group of people who hold each other accountable, who support and who are willing to walk the path of recovery “no matter what”!


  • Why do you want to become part of the Healing Pool
  • Are you ready to show up fully for the entire 4 months?
  • Are you ready to make this a top priority in your life?

Meet The Creator

Aleah Ava is a Spiritual Psychologist and Tantra Therapist. She supports both couples and individuals in navigating through the much needed deeper inner healing work to achieve supreme clarity, emotional liberation from the past and full personal sovereignty and empowerment.

Through her own method – Emotional Recycling – she enables her clients to safely and consciously re-access repressed unintegrated feelings. Integration and healing happens through the safe and vulnerable exposure of those feelings, the necessary grief work and the overwriting with the heart-based frequency of love and pleasure.

After more than a decade of partaking in various healing and growth modalities and trainings (including more than 150 open-end deep feeling/inner child sessions) she is now able to take people to the depth of their being.

Her unique gifts such as her clair-sentience as well as her fine-tuned intuition and clarity combined with the holding of a non-judgmental, safe and loving space allows her clients to naturally and efficiently dive in, work through their repressed  feelings and resurface with insights that literally transform their life on every level.

Being a recovering Love Addict herself motivated her to create the Addicted to Love Podcast where she sheds light and immeasurable insight into one of the most controversial topics Love Addiction-and dependency. She supports her listeners in breaking denial, creating a high level of awareness and she shares with them the powerful and successful tools that helped her break free from dysfunctional, unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships.

She is the co-founder of The Royal Path and together with her Business Partner, Dan Hart, and their team, they offer signature deep healing retreats, individual, group and couples coaching as well as online programs. Their first book will be released by spring/summer 2021.

Kick-Start Your Healing Now
With Our Free Ebook!

We have created a very special gift for you – a free ebook that entails an overview on the how and what when it comes to deep healing, emotional liberation and positive lasting change.

In the book we talk about the importance of doing the deeper inner healing work, what it is that we actually need to heal and how we are going to achieve that.

You will be introduced to our signature method called Emotional Recycling and you will learn to detect what spiritual bypassing means.

Healing is no longer optional and with us and our team you find people who have walked the talk. We know what it means and more importantly, we know what it takes to get you to the other end of the tunnel! Click on the link below and get your free copy today!